OMG! I’m a sexagenarian.
I recently turned 61. There’s no denying then; I’m definitely a sexagenarian!
Hm, in english it sounds less bad than in Dutch. Sex-A-Genarian. It does have a sexy ring to it, doesn’t it?
Anyway…
There’s a lot you’re not supposed to do any longer when you are old(-er). There’s are tons of unwritten rules, expectations and judgements.
Fortunately more and more ageing/aged people make up their own minds and rules about what they (still) can (not) and should (not) do.
61 things I’ll keep doing now I’m 61
Making a list like this is far from original. But it is MY list! And I know you’re dying to find out all about it. Hahaha… So dive in!
Here are the 61 things I intend to do/keep doing at the age of 61 and beyond:
- Move to Spain #vivaespana . Read more about my Spanish dream here.
- Learn Spanish #olehablaespanol #duolingo
- Make new friends #friendsaredabomb . Get to know some of my friends here , here or here

- Let my hair grow longer and longer, until I trip over it. Hahaha… #curlygirl . Who says older women need to wear their hair short?! I wrote about curly hair here and here.

- Drink champagne. Whenever/wherever I can. Every day is a good day for champagne, I say. Especially pink champagne! HEAVEN! #champagne #pinkchampagne #morechampagneplease
- Wear colourful clothes and accessories #moreismore . Have a closer look at my fashion style here and here.

- Keep blogging

- Wear lingerie
- Keep sketching on my iPad #paper53 . I wrote several blog posts about Paper53. Just type Paper53 in the search bar and they will all pop up.

One of a series of sketches I made for a children’s book for my ‘nephew’.
- Paint my nails in every imaginable color and design

In Singapore and Haarlem together, I think I have about 150 bottles of nail polish.
- Wear make up
- Enjoy art

Lovely art installation in the ArtScienceMuseum Singapore.
- Wear heels

No, I’m not gonna wear heels like these ones, worn by Philpppino maids in Singapore!
- Dance as often as possible
- Dance the argentine tango

The tango scene is not very nice for women, especially not for older women. But as long as I get to dance I’m enjoying it.
- Hang out with young people #agedoesnotmatter

I tend to have lots of fun going out with my stepdaughter.
- Drink cocktails #cheersbottomsup

Champagne and cocktails; how I love them!
- Play dress up
- Play games. #homoludens
- Go crazy with Halloween costumes . Have a look at our costumes and make up here
- Try to get out of an escape room. So far I never succeeded. #worstescaperever
- Relax with Netflix; bingewatching as a couch potato #bestescapismever
- Talk to every cat and dog I run into with a high-pitched animal voice #weirdcatlady
- Watch funny and cute animal videos on Instagram daily
- Travel #wanderlust
- Write lots of snail mail, embellished with stickers and glitter and what not.

- Walk daily, although with mild, repressed resentment. Purely to control my diabetes and my weight. #diabetessucks
- Take lots of pictures
- Stay curious #curiosityneverkilledanycat
- Keep in touch with friends and family
- (Re-) start working out on my Wii Sports
- Chase my dreams #dreambig #ordreamsmall #justrealizethembeforeitstoolate
- Laugh
#adaywithoutlaughingis….Oh, please, so corny and untrue - Cry #itsmypartyandIcryifIwantto
- Love

Frits and me
- Take hot baths #hottub #jaccuzzi
- Be creative

I upcycled this deer last summer #Iknowwhatyoudidlastsummer . Really?
- Enjoy life #carpediem
- Unfortunately: get stressed #wishIwasmoreZen
- Surround myself with kitsch and quirky things . Take a peek inside my quirky house in Haarlem here.

I LOVE quirky stuff.
- Discover new music
- Buy unnecessary stuff #justcauseIlikeit
- Enjoy sunny weather
- Hate sports #amIreallytheonlypersonintheworldwhohatessports
- Be a city-girl
- Avoid too much nature
- Sin

Best slogan ever!
- Avoid health food #healthyfoodisnofun
- Enjoy junkfood #whyisntjunkfoodhealthyfood

My favourite food: french fries.
- Learn how to be a good photographer
- Paint my hair blond, blue or pink, whatever I feel like. #blondeshavemorefun

Hair goals
- Another unfortunate one: get irritated in traffic #*@%grrrmoveyoub****rd
- Enjoy the digital life
- Enjoy being on my own #solotimeisrechargetime
- Talk to girlfriends #girlfriendsarecrucialinlife
- Dream about cake, whipped cream, loads of french fries -with mayo- and italian ice-cream #letthemeatcake #whycantIeatcake

Mouthwatering!
- Be honest
- Be myself
- Learn how to do handlettering
- Keep learning new things
- is none of your business! Sorry, but #somethingsareprivate
Do you have a list like this? Which of my bullet points are on your list as well?
Happy belated birthday!
You are a fun, interesting, creative person and I am so happy to have met you.
You act and appear more like you are in your early 40’s.
Keep being marvellous!
Suzanne
Thanks! And the same to you, dear, very happy to be friends with your awesome self!
This is an awesome list. It so depicts why you are my friend. Love all of it.
Greetje
Thanks, dear. Glad you are my friend!